SEX!

Yeah thats right I said the "S" word. The sad truth is that about 20 years ago a post titled "SEX!", if blogs existed 20 years ago, would have stunned many and now many people will not give it a second look. The fact is that the society we live in has taught us that "Its just sex". There is nothing special about it and there are no consequences for having it. You do it with as many people as you can because that is what will make you cool. I have to say I honestly feel sorry for all of those who fall prey to that. In fact the opposite is quite true. There is no such thing as "just sex". Sex is a beautiful thing that was created by God and was meant to occur between a married MAN and WOMAN. Of course society has gotten that part of it all wrong too. Every time you have sex with a person you are giving a piece of yourself to them. You say thats not true I have sex every weekend and I am fine. Well thats probably because you gave so much of yourself away you don't have nothing left. The next biggest lie that movies portray is that sex has no consequences. I know there are movies that make fun of people catching crabs from sleeping with a stranger but believe me that is the least of your worries. As a matter of fact you should consider yourself lucky if that is all you get. Millions of dollars have been raised to try to cure AIDS. I know by now its no mystery as to how AIDS spreads yet the spread continues quite rapidly. So if you thing a few minutes of fun is worth cutting your life short then hey "Its just sex". Thats almost like saying hey "Its just russian roulette". Well its just a game until you find the chamber with the bullet in it then its your life.

Another lie that you may tell yourself is that I have sex with them because I love them. Well for this I will refer to my other post on what is life. To truly live you need God. I firmly believe with everything in me that you can only have a real serious relationship with one person at a time. If a man cheats on his wife it usually ends the relationship. The same is true with God. Before you are married you can only have a true relationship with one person which better be God. Once you start giving yourself to someone else before you are married you break that relationship. Many young adults find themselves struggling to get close to God. Well look at your physical relationships. Do they go across the line of what is holy to where you "cheat on God". Its odd how people know that when they cheat on their girlfriend that they are probably going to break up. Why do you expect anything different from God? He is a jealous God who loves you very much. And believe me no matter how mean you think your girlfriend or boyfriend might be they aint got nothing on God. Which brings me to sex. If you are married and you have sex with a woman that is not your wife what would you honestly expect to happen. Why would you expect anything different from God? Even beyond that the bible says that fornication is the only sin that affects your body. 1 Corinthians 6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

Heres the bottom line. If you have sex before marriage your cheating on a omnipotent righteous loving and jealous God. If you are having problems staying close to God and you read your bible and pray look at your physical relationships. And just to clear something up for all the jokers who might say "When you get married your true relationship is with your wife" Well once you are married the bible says you and your spouse become one flesh. Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Thus keeping the door open to have that 1 on 1 true relationship with God.